Thursday, February 21, 2008

Fat mouthed email!

Okay....well I cannot copy the email here b/c I deleted it but pretty much it said that I am a Non-Christian, a shitty mom because I subject my daughter to sex and that I promote adultry and by selling sex toys I promote diseases and infections to single women.

So, none of it bothered me until it spoke of me being a bad mom and a Non Christian! I love God with all my heart and the best day of my life was when I felt the power of God in me. I can remember the day like it was today! I was in a dark place and was loaded with worry! I begged for God to give me strength and I felt him at that very moment pull me out of the trenches and into his arms. It was a magical moment and no one can tell me that it wasn't him! From that day forward, my life was no longer full of darkness. I have also felt Satan! He has tried to enter my life and my love for God is stronger then he will ever be. I may not attend church and I may sin more then I should, but God always forgives me and I can feel it. He knows that I love him!!

And my daughter is the most loved kid on earth. I am actually very over-protective of her. It took me months to allow her to go to the park with all her friends alone. Before I go to bed I have to check on her numerous times to make sure she's still breathing or that she didn't throw up and is choking to death (This happened to a child of someone I know!). My daughter was reading before she was 4yrs old and is very smart. This is due to the fact that she has parents that work with her and teach her new things. We take her on vacations and she really doesn't hurt for much because I love spoiling her. She is a awesome little girl with great manners (to everyone but her mom!) and everyone loves her! Everyone! And yes, unfortunately my child knows about sex. She learned all about sex in 3rd grade on the playground. Luckily, we have a good relationship with our daughter and she told us she knew. After I cried in the bathroom for 15min I got the balls to talk with her about pregnancies and V.D.'s. And then my wonderful hubby came home and spent over an hour outside talking about it more and told her how proud we were of her to come to us with questions. She did not learn about sex from us, she learned it from a kid much older then her. But I really think that Diva is more educated then the young women who told her about it!

And I would never promote adultry. I am a very happy married women and I don't need another man in my life to make me complete. I do believe that affairs happen b/c needs are not being met and it is not one persons fault. So, me and hubby make sure we fulfill the most important needs of eachother. I have one sex partner, and that is my hubby. I have had one sex partner for over 10yrs now and plan on being with him forever! End of story!

And I truly believe that sex is very important to a marriage. Very, Very important! And I do believe that we have all falling victim to the routine of sex. I try to spice it up for couples and guess what.........it works! I get feedback from my customers and I have never heard anything negative. Even the most sceptical ones. So, yes.....I sell sex toys among other stuff and it is not evil.....it is helpful!!!

I'm really not bothered by this person, I was more worried that others felt this way about me too. I really love my new bloggy friends and I don't want you to think that I am all of the names above. I really am a fun, adverterous girl. I am wild, I am crazy, but I am a Christian, I am married and I am a good mom and a good friend! I teach my Diva to laugh through her tears and I think this is a very important life lesson!

Thanks for being so supportive of me! I love you all!
Hugs!

18 comments:

Kathryn said...

Who are these freaking lunatics that keep emailing you? What is their freaking hangup? Get a life people! For freaks sake!!!!

The sex life is extremely important in a marriage. God created it for a married couple's enjoyment. I think in essence you are helping married people to connect with each other more. If people put a bit more effort into their marriage and sex life there would not be as many affairs.
And of course, marriage is not all about sex (sometimes not at all) but it certainly does help. Especially guys. It is how they feel close, attractive, and loved.
Anyway, please don't feel that everyone is thinking this about you. I think that is nuts.
I'm glad you wrote this post. You needed to get that off your chest.
You go girl!!

And for all of you coward freaks emailing my girl, BACK OFF!!!

Mama Zen said...

Some people just get a thrill out of passing judgement on someone else. Screw 'em if they can't take a joke!

Wonderful World of Weiners said...

Are you suggesting that I give you my new Kate Spade bag? Are you trying to take advantage of my sick self?

I may be deathly ill but I'm not crazy!

Hallie :)

The MomBabe said...

Okay, first of all, I can't believe that you're getting nasty emails. If you don't like it, don't read it. Sheesh.

Second, don't let things like this get to you. You know you're a fabulous mom and it's too bad that other people have to put you down to feel good about themselves.

Third, if you DON'T think sex is important to marriage, well, you're wrong. We all know guys and girls are different creatures and while things like holding hands and cuddling are important to women, for guys, it's sex. That's how they feel close to us. Get over it, it's a fact.

Fourth, YOU, my dear, are a rock star and don't let things like this bother you....

♥♥♥♥♥

Smitty76 said...

Let me tell you honey, you DO NOT NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF to us. The people that "know" you here and have been with you since the beginning can tell what a great woman you are!! SCREW THOSE PRUDE, PSYCHO, BIBLE-THUMPIN' people who judge! Who the hell are THEY to tell you that you are not Christian or a good mother?

And I agree 100% about the sex. I have the best sexual relationship now with my future hubby (*GASP* sex before marriage! LOL) than I ever had with partners in the past...my future hubs and I are open and honest with each other and would never dream of cheating...and yes I have sex toys! They do not promote sexual diseases! That is absolutely crazy of your psycho emailer to suggest!

So anyway, let it all roll off your back. No one else feels that way about you! :-) You're a sweetheart.

Nissa said...

*applause* You tell 'em! You can be a Christian and still *gasp* talk about sex! You know it's the 'holier than thou' people who end up having terrible skeletons in their closest (nasty affairs, child pornography..etc)

Mike Golch said...

I would like to wade in on this to those hate mongers I say this UP YOURS!!!!!!!!!!!! Live and let live is always a good idea,if you don't like what you don'y come visiting,and keep your remarks to your self!hate mail is not the answer.Thats my story and I'm sticking to it.Mike

girlymom said...

Krissy~ You said you thought maybe others thought this way about you as well... I don't. I think you are a FUN, friendly person who enjoys life to the fullest. I never know what I am going to find when I stop in over here, but I look forward to it! Hope the crazy emailer learns to mind their own business!

Sandy C. said...

Kudos to you for getting this out and posted. Sex is important in a marriage. I love your blog, and come here often because of how REAL you are. Big round of applause for being yourself and not letting others affect you.

♥♥♥ A- Licious ♥♥♥ said...

first of all.....don't get me started about being a Christian.

i WILL say this.

no one - i mean NO ONE can tell you that you ARE or ARE NOT one.

only God knows. you know.

God loves us ALL. period.

Jesus came back for the forgotten, the discouraged, the troubled....the SINNERS.

people need to get a clue before they speak.

but just the same, i pray for them too...i pray for the ones who don't get it or understand it....i used to be one of them....and i am still learning....but i do know with all my heart and then some - with God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.


mama...your relationship with God is yours. and no one except God can judge that - EVER. not one person can do so...not a church, not a pastor, no one....GOD is the only one.

my belief is this - a TRUE Christian does NOT judge another. does NOT discourage OTHERS - but always tries to LIFT others up in encouragement and to God....talking down to someone is very UNCHRISTIAN like.

who are we to judge anyone? unless our closet is completely clean (yet, even then we can not judge)

do your thing mama - love God - spend time with God daily - and be blessed. read the word as much as you can DAILY.

shrug the negative off and have FAITH.

((hugz))

a-licious
in da hizzzzouse

♥♥♥ A- Licious ♥♥♥ said...

oh and the mother deal...same thing...someone out there who doesnt even know you has no right to talk about you as a mother....period.

that urks me.

;o)

((hug))

Cathy said...

Next time a freak sends you an email like that post their information on your site for all to see!! We can then send them weird mail! Don't listen to the turds!

FUN-ky Mama said...

I agree with all those brilliant ladies up there. ^^^ You don't have to justify yourself to ANYONE!! Least of all some psycho emailer. You have a happy family and you know that you are doing nothing wrong....that is all that matters!
Oh and you are SO hired as my personal assistant, as long as your salary requirements aren't too high......like room and board? I can't even promise to feed you. LOL! ;o)

Amy said...

I think you are a rock star!

Nickie said...

It is truly unfortunate that people have to be ignorant about certain subjects and rather than learn about those things, they choose to live in fear and anger and then ridicule those around them so that they feel better. Continue to do what you do best. We all have our talents and those of us who choose to use them are doing ourselves and others a favor.

Sleeping Mommy said...

There are some people that cannot handle the idea of a MOTHER having sex and enjoying it let alone promoting ways for others to enjoy it.

Don't they realize that is the way many people become mothers?

And I'm with you on this one. Sex is extremely important to a marriage. It's important for the partners be in sync and on the same page sexually. That's where problems often start, otherwise.

LunaNik said...

I'm sorry that you felt the need to defend yourself here of all places. We are here reading, faithfully because we WANT to be. We love you and enjoy your spunk and your spirit.

You should put a pic of a big ol' dildo in your header, just to scare away those who may be unjustifiably offended!

Grandy said...

I can't believe people can be so hurtful. Want me to take this person round back for ya??

Hang in there sweet cheeks!! There are many of us out here that thing you rock!!