Sunday, June 29, 2008

Are you the most popular blog???

This is what I feel I fail at. Lately there have been many blogs that have been getting beat up because of haters and shit holes that like to drag others down. I feel that they tear you up because they are jealous that they are not popular. Kinda like the high school kids that wore all black and had a Mohawk and scared the hell out of all that crossed their paths. I think they did this because they wanted to install fear into everyone because they were not popular. They did not get invited to the big parties and they did not get asked to prom.

I was not popular in school.....but I wasn't a nerd either. I hung with the popular group, went to the cool parties but talked and spent time with the ones that didn't get invited to parties. I was liked by all. I didn't want to be the popular one. The drama and the work to be popular is overwhelming. Most of the time because the most popular girls were not being themselves. They were too busy worrying about their looks or to be quite honest, at my high school, were complete sluts. They spread their legs more then then a eagle spread their wings. Truly...whores.

I question my self all the time. Do I want to be popular. Sure I an extent. But then I see the "Popular" bloggers struggling to keep up with their 5000 viewers. To do the bloggy courtesy. I couldn't do it. Hell, I stress out over the hell could I handle a being popular.

I want my readers to come here and blow rice crispies from their nose from laughing too hard. I want my readers to bust a gut and laugh the tears from their eyes. I want readers to come here and take some sexual advice from a Diva that knows her sex. And I'm proud to say that some of my readers are taking their lovemaking to the next step......and I am a proud sexual Diva......

Now I'm not saying that I don't want my readers to go "Whatever, fine......she doesn't want me to be here anymore so screw her......I'm leaving!" Of course not. I love my comments. I enjoy my readers. I have become friends with people I have never met but feel like I've known them my whole life. It's so cool. I love hearing from them and reading about their different lives. I just love it.

I think blogging is a therapy for me. It allows me to speak my mind and it allows me to talk about sex.....and I love talking sex. I love giving advice. I love it.

So, I'm not here to pretend to be a someone I am not. I am not the most popular, although I think I am a relief of "sex" air. I hope you all enjoy my blog too. I know that I go from sex, to friends to my daughter, to my husband to my dogs and even to Target. I talk about it all. I don't ever know where I am going with my post. I am all over the place. I have "BlogADHD". Or maybe I just have ADHD....who knows.

Just to let you know that really don't get bothered by hate mail. I think it's funny and interesting. I deal with rat bastards here in Hartford that make me want to smoosh their faces in a fat man's crack. I deal with jerks and bitches from work. I don't care if you like me or not. Don't like me? Move on. Like me? stick around. Love me? Keep commenting.

Now, I have to go reward my husband and burn off about 1000 calories because my stud muffin took Diva and 3 friends to a late movie and sleep over. He is doing all the work. Then his sister is staying with us for a couple days and so he will be a very busy dad/uncle/brother/husband. I'm so proud of him doing such crazy things with the girls. He actually takes these little rugrats to the mall to pick out girly things. He's a pretty good

So, looks like I have my work cut out for me tonight! Like I said, I'm thinking at least 1000 calories burned. Exercise can be good!!!

Thanks for checking in on me and being my cool friends.

BTW.....Diva and I are going to go to Make a Wish Foundation and see if there is any community work she can do to help the community. I encourage all to get involved...because it makes a difference. No matter how small your commitment are helping.

Now to get Diva to do this without bitching and moaning might be like getting an enema with a chainsaw but I'm a parent, and that's normal at times.


Titty Twister!!!! LOL!


LaskiGal said...

I adore your BlogADHD!!! That is why I come. I adore visiting other blogs way more than I like writing in mine and I really enjoy writing posts!

But, it is the community out here that has pulled me in. And, unfortunately, with that community comes all the other STUFF. I'm not controversial enough or popular enough to draw in trolls. For that I am thankful. I just want to read, connect, laugh, cry, have some fun and maybe make someone else do the same.

BTW, "proud sexual Diva......" you are one FABULOUS blogger. A little hidden treasure, if I may. If more people knew you were out here you'd have a hard time keeping up with the response :) But, you do it all for you, and that is most important!

Kori said...

You so ROCK in my book!

Kel said...

There is nothing wrong with BlogADHD - it's kind of like a goodie bag, I'm never quite sure what I'm going to get when I drop by, but I love every minute of it!

You keeping it 'real' is what makes your blog so unique and some place I want to visit. Thanks for all the laughs!!


Kathryn said...

I'm so glad you don't take negative comments to heart. Why get upset over what a stranger says? Who cares?
You rock!

LunaNik said...

It does seem like a ton of hate is spreading thru the bloggy world lately doesn't it. I, like you, am happy that I don't have thousands of readers to keep up with. I'm perfectly happy and content with the handful that I have.

A Buns Life said...

What in the hell is going on?? I guess I am so UNPOPULAR, that I don't even know what everyone is talking about....I keep hearing about all the hate that is going on, and whatnot, but I don't know of anything specific. I guess that is a good thing....I don't like drama.

You just keep doing what you are doing. This your you damn blog, and your space to make YOU feel better and if other people don't like it, QUIT FREAKING READING IT! It seems pretty simple to me.

Love ya!

sltbee69 said...

To repeat basically what laskigal gal said, I love your blog ADHD! It makes me keep coming back for more. I'm glad my blog is such an insignificant spot in the bloggy world because I'm in no danger of being drawn into it. I left an online parenting group I was a member of for almost 3 years because of the high school bullshit. I'm almost 40 for chrissakes - I'm too old for all that drama.

DysFUNctional Mom said...

I like that you don't try to blog a certain way to get more readers. You are real and you are YOU. And that's a very good thing!

Blessings From Above said...

You are awesome and I LOVE visiting your blog! I am always guaranteed a laugh and for that I thank you my friend.

Brittany said...

You're popular, to me!!! ;)

LOVE the titty twister. lol I think Andy needs to get one of those. ha ha.

Grandy said...

First...props to the hubby for the daddy/uncle/brother/hubby duties.

Second... How does one get hate mail? I don't think I've made it there yet, but how cool would that be? Hate mail? Are you talking about our OHMommy classy lady? She rocks...and so do you!!

Stacy said...

Sometimes I think I want to be popular, then realize how much work it is already! I'm trying not to stress so much about keeping to my "scheduled posts". Sometimes I just want ot shut down the shop for a month so I can catch up with my life more. I really love blogging, but it is a bit of work.

Love coming here, too! I love how you talk about anything and everything honestly. It's refreshing. :)

Don Mills Diva said...

I love you Krissy and I come here because you crack me up - don't ever change!

Taj said...

I'm popping over from Dawn's and I loved this post! As one who has received more hate mail than I think should be allowable, I completely agree.

I prefer blogs and people that keep it real. Makes them that much more delightful!

And that titty twister is hot.

OHmommy said...


I was not popular in high school. This blogging thing feels like highschool to me. I am trying to figure it all out.

It totally is therapy for me. I just wish the mean people would go away!

And you... you my friend are AWESOME. I love catching up as much as I can.

April said...

There is nothing wrong with BlogADHD. Let it all come out, I say! I'll always comment. I may not get to every single one, but I do try to check in regularly to read all about your firecracker lifestyle. ;-) Love ya!

Tam said...

HI popped over from somewhere I forgot...Either Kori or OHMommy or o dang I forgot! Just wanted to say hey! I agree with Laskigal...about the community. I hate dealing with it all in real life at least it as not at bad in can always delete the negative comments but in real life you can not delete the Nay SAYERS!!!!! lol